Becoming “Radically Me”
I specialise in guiding individuals on their journey of self-realisation, helping them navigate the profound question,
“Who Am I Becoming?”
Through my ‘You Are Not You: Becoming “Radically Me Amid Uncertainty” program, you will gain:
1. Self-Awareness: Gain clarity on your strengths, weaknesses, thoughts, emotions, values, and beliefs. Make informed decisions that resonate with your core being, shaping your career path, where work feels like a joyful, creative, and meaningful integration and expression of your central purpose, potential and true self.
2. Adaptability: Build resilience to cope with change, manage transitions, and respond to life’s challenges with clarity, confidence, and determination.
3. Authenticity: Live and express your ‘radical’ identity in alignment with your highest calling, ideals, and enthusiasm. Embrace a deeper, empowered, and gratifying
WHO AM I?
Dr Bernice George is a certified Personal Performance Coach, who specialises in identity coaching. She is dedicated to ethically guiding people who feel stuck, confused, discontented, and disconnected to explore the depths and reaches of their identity, and answer the compelling question “Who Am I Becoming?”
Bernice is a former long-distance track athlete who represented her country at athletics championships. Running instilled the mental discipline, determination, and fortitude to finish each of life’s circuits, with competence and grace.
In her roles as psychologist and counsellor, she optimised this resolute mindset to help young people and adults gain a positive self-concept and a panoramic view of the life-affirming future they could have, as they rhythmically cleared the hurdles of fear, anxiety, limiting beliefs, and self-doubt.
Bernice is convinced that when individuals (re)discover and deeply connect with ‘radically me,’ their signature strengths, interests and vision, life and relationships transcend the ordinary, and work no longer feels like labour, but a joyful, creative, and meaningful integration and expression of their central purpose, highest potential and true self.
Bernice believes in the power of alliance with people as they navigate and experience profound transformation and contentment in life, work, and relationships.
Who is it for?
This program is for:
1. Career professionals who feel stagnant, restricted, frustrated, dissatisfied, and yearn for change. You recognise the need to make a quantum leap in life but lack energy, clarity, and direction. You are feeling anxious and intimidated by the unknown: But guess what… The ‘unknown’ is You!
2. Young adults who are feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to establish their identities and make important decisions regarding education, career, and relationships. You may be experiencing uncertainty, confusion, inadequacy, insecurity, high levels of stress, isolation, fear of failure and the future, which can lead to a crisis of identity.
3. You have just had a major life changing event (relationship change, relocation, mental/ physical health challenges) and you’re feeling lost, anxious, overwhelmed, depressed, directionless, or disconnected from your true self, central purpose, self-worth, and values. You want a ‘radically me’ identity, which is the power to help you adjust to change, align with your new reality, circumstances, and aspirations, and embrace a deeper, hopeful, self-honouring and gratifying life.
Why aren’t you moving forward?
What’s holding you back from venturing into the uncharted realm of your most powerful identity, and the profound impact it could have on your life, work, and relationships?
1. It’s a tricky path…
Much like climbing Everest, the journey to self-realisation can be daunting. Finding the right path isn’t always clear, and you might feel lost or confused. Without guidance, you might stray from your intended path, leading to frustration and exhaustion, and drift towards a false, unstable version of yourself. But don’t worry, you’re not alone. Just make sure to consciously work towards being your true self, despite any challenges you encounter.
2. It’s scary…
Setting out on the journey to discover your true self resembles scaling the mighty Everest, which is scary and intimidating. It requires challenging your perceptions, shedding limiting beliefs and fears, and venturing beyond your comfort zone. Your identity is of paramount importance. So, are you prepared to embody ‘radically me’ in a world of perpetual change and uncertainty?
3.It’s hard to get started…
The expedition towards your most powerful identity starts with the decision to confront unchartered territory. Perhaps you’re hesitant to take the first step or unsure of the path to take. You don’t know what you don’t know, and indecision, uncertainty or inaction come at a cost. Just as climbers need guides to conquer Everest, you may need expert assistance to navigate the terrain of self-discovery.
That’s where I come in. As your dedicated guide, I’m here to help you clear the treacherous trail of indecision, uncertainty, or inaction to identify and embrace your ‘radically me’ identity. Let’s embark on this transformative journey together.
Module one
Identity Matters
Outcome
- Uncover your unique identity so you will be able to connect with your most powerful, coherent self.
- Identify your core values and rediscover dormant strengths and talents.
- Reflect on your own thoughts and beliefs so you will be more aware of thought patterns, habits, and fears that keep you stuck in a job you hate.
- Define what you want out of life and work and how to fine-tune your skills in order to make the greatest and most meaningful contributions to the world.
Description
In this foundation module, you will discover your ideal self, your core values, and strengths and learn how to maintain a strong self-identity that will inspire congruence and confidence in the choices you make to advance your career.
Module two
The Psychology of Unfulfillment
Outcome
- Self-assess your psychological, emotional, and intellectual experiences of unfulfillment so you will validate your own experiences, take your own concerns seriously, and appropriately address them with relevant authority figures at the workplace.
- Identify possible self-marginalisation in your life and work so that you will be able to overcome conflicts within yourself and be more self-accepting, self-affirming, and free to move forward and gain the job you desire.
- Discover exactly how your skills and attributes collectively contribute value to clients, so that you will be intentional about positioning yourself to serve people to the best of your capability.
Description
In this module, you will discover the reasons for your feelings of marginalisation so that you will know exactly what to work on, moving forward to finding the job of your dreams.
Module three
Decision Making and Change Process
Outcome
- Reflect on and recognise the power of self-knowledge and self-determination in order to exercise your freedom to make complex and difficult decisions that will enable you to experience meaning and fulfilment in life and work.
- Identify the criteria that are critical for you to make empowering decisions and learn to master an effective decision making process that takes into account your preferences and current work dynamics.
- Discover where you are in the stages of change so that you will know the next transitional stage you need to target.
Description
In this module, you will master key steps that will enable you to make specific decisions that will help you take ownership and decisively and calmly move forward toward your calling and mission.
Module four
Radical Responsibility and Ownership
Outcome
- Define SMART goals linked to your job preference(s) so that you will be able to develop a clear and purposeful action plan that you need to prioritise.
- Discover your vulnerabilities and resources in order to identify and bridge the gaps in the level of intention, commitment, and enthusiasm required to successfully execute your plan.
- (Re)discover the things (ideals) that are most important to you so you will be able to exercise your freedom of choice and take total responsibility for your professional growth and boundaries in work.
Description
In this module, you will learn how to effectively set goals, craft an action plan, empower yourself and hold yourself responsible and accountable for systematically executing your plan and achieving the success and congruence you want in work.
Module five
Getting Recognised and Utilised
Outcome
- Generate a clear and comprehensive picture of the professional skills and attributes you wish to utilise in your ideal new role.
- Uncover your vulnerabilities so that you will be able to seek growth opportunities that will equip you to perform your job of choice with excellence, vitality, and joy.
- Perceive your perspectives, expertise, and contributions as worthy of consideration and equal status, and therefore go after work you believe you merit.
Description
In this module, you will learn to identify and update your professional and personal skills and know how to gain practice and supportive feedback so you can work with high levels of congruence, integrity, and effectiveness in the job you love.
Module six
Flourishing Through Wholesome Habits
Outcome
- Finally, understand the mind-body-spirit connection, so you will choose to commit to a balanced and healthy lifestyle that will give you energy, enhance creativity and potency in work.
- Develop and practise a daily routine that allows you to prioritise your health and consistently challenge yourself to gain fresh perspectives to manage the stressors in life and work.
- Discover the source(s) of your strength and wisdom so you will consciously rely upon them to empower you to take positive actions that will nourish your mind, body, and spirit, and make you fit, fabulous, and fulfilled in your life of service to others.
Description
In this module, you will learn to master techniques for boosting mental, physical and spiritual fitness, navigating and reducing stress and fatigue, so you can consciously maintain a strong sense of self-mastery, balance, and peak levels of productivity and enjoyment, with grace and purpose.
Module seven
Empowering Beliefs: Postures of the Mind
Outcome
- Identify the beliefs and mindset that sabotage and limit you from perceiving pinnacle possibilities.
- Generate alternative, empowering beliefs in order to replace outdated restrictive beliefs and, in turn, fuel your drive and decision to create the role(s) you considered unattainable.
- Discover the power of the subconscious mind to help you achieve self-command and the highest ideals for your life and work.
Description
Module eight
Self-Advocacy: With Elegance and Power
Outcome
- (Re)discover the skills of self-awareness, flexible thinking, generating solutions, and interdependence, so that you will be able to take control of your own priorities and plans.
- Gain fluency in recognising others’ perspectives so that you can communicate your needs at the right time, place, and reasons, while maintaining your self-respect.
- Develop self-monitoring skills so you will be able to draw upon your confidence and positive self-identity when you feel unheard, overlooked and on the verge of relapsing to disempowering behaviours in professional conversational spaces.
Description
Module nine
Success and Celebrations
Outcome
- Identify the evidence of your achievements so that you will be able to remind yourself of what success – as you defined it – feels and looks like, and validate the reality of your new empowering beliefs.
- Celebrate your commitment to self-mastery and success, so you will be motivated to dream bigger, and continue to stretch and grasp greater things, giving back more than you received to help transform lives.
- Verify your own identity and the source of your capability so that you will be able to manifest radical gratitude for the gifts you have to give to others.
Description
In this module, you will know how to identify and appreciate victories in the other areas of your life so that you will stimulate positive emotions, improve your health, motivation, and capacity to experience more moments of peace and contentment in your life.
Module ten
Accountability and Moving Forward
Outcome
- Receive a weekly check-in call for four weeks to ensure you have support and accountability in implementing the programme and can overcome any obstacles that may arise.
- Identify other credible professional people to support your current and future development needs, helping you to stay accountable for your overall health priorities and work objectives.
- Demystify what it takes to keep your ‘currency’ strong so that your new confidence, empowering beliefs and decisions will continue to appreciate in value and multiply in the job you truly enjoy.
Description
In this module, you will learn how to confidently navigate your way forward and know when you need a lift from safe people to fly in formation, so you can elevate and make even greater progress as you transition on your professional journey.